Oh touché! Bravo! I LOVE IT!!!
Yes, in that case you are of course correct. If you include things such as doctors visits or treatments within the definition of “grooming” then by that definition they certainly are. Of course this then necessitates that we be careful in our language so as not to confuse others. We would not want someone to think you are talking about the bad type of grooming if you mean to discuss the good kind. In fact I think it would be simpler if we just stuck with the original definition. But as I have said, “Simplicity is not automatically a moral good”. If you believe that the inclusion of such things within the definition will enhance the richness of the human experience then by all means proclaim your truth! You have my full support.
So allow me to clarify what I said in the light of your truth. I am against intentional efforts to lead children to become the sexual playthings of adults. I am all for wellness checkups and doctors visits.